Lovesutra Episode 18: Rihanna once admitted that she likes being ‘submissive’ in bed, did you know that 65% of women also like being submissive? Ladies, let’s tell these guys our fantasies!
How much are you a fan of the Fifty Shades of Gray movie franchise? Raise your hands (no you won’t care) but just to see the fan base. I also raise my hands because I am a fan of Christian Grey. Yes, the movie showed a lot of BDSM layers, and maybe they are wrong in some parts, but the emotional turmoil, torment, pain and love between Christian Gray and Anastasia Steele is something I also look for in my partner. And of course the sex part (*wink*)! Anyway, the point of asking this question is because of today’s topic – submission s*x. Well, I feel like there’s nothing wrong with it until it doesn’t hurt to an extent that you can’t deal with it. And if our favorite Hollywood singer Rihanna can admit she’s submissive too, then what’s up? Scroll below to continue reading!
RiRi is a boss babe. She is a singer, entrepreneur and mother. She has to make all the important decisions when it comes to her career, but in bed the Barbadian singer likes to be submissive.
In an interview with Rolling Stone, Rihanna had once said, “I like to be in charge, but I like to be submissive.” She further explained, describing, “You become a little lady, someone who is macho and in charge of your shit.”
Rihanna went on to say that it’s about taking a break from being the decision maker, the one in complete control. Speaking of which, “I work a lot and I have a lot of executive decisions to make, so when it comes to being intimate, I like to feel like someone’s girl.”
In BDSM, S stands for Submission, and to be honest, quite a lot Ladies (including me) fantasizing about getting intimate with our partners in bed, where the man takes charge and dominates us while he enjoys the sex. Do not you trust me? Well, according to a report in Cosmopolitan, according to a study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, it turns out that 65% of women like to get involved in submissive sex with their partners.
There are many layers of submissive s*x and without getting hurt you can also achieve spiciness in your s*x life. So ladies, are you ready to know more about it? First off, there shouldn’t be any reason or justification why you would want to be submissive in bed – you can just be for your partner because it’s HOT!
Submissive sex needs a lot of trust from both parties, as it can get a little intense, with the submissive hurting herself in the process. More than trusting your partner, ladies, you need to trust yourself that while this is challenging, it can also be fun and enjoyable! Have your safeword ready to get out of the situation! However, in all this CONSENT is very necessary. You have to be ready to admit your stupidity, but once you admit it, it can be fun (Didn’t Anastasia Steele like it too?)
Here are a few submissive sex positions that can be less risky and more fun –
Spanking (while your partner pushes you in, a spanking won’t hurt). Surrender (lying down with your partner or dom tying your hand or holding your hand still gives a lot of room to experiment with penetration and oral!)
Power Grab, Arm Lock, and the positions can continue that you and your partner can try to spice up your regular vanilla s*x life! This may not necessarily give you good sex satisfaction, but it will definitely give you an experience that will make your fantasies unfold. And when you fulfill your fantasies in bed, it will give you instant pleasure that will help boost your hormones to give you a better sex life with your partner!
Why always go for the regular s*x positions when there’s a variety of options to try? What do you think ladies? Wouldn’t you let your fantasies unfold in bed like Anastasia Steele? *Wink*! Let us know in the comments below!
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